When a guy says “you’re funny,” it can land in different ways — a light compliment, an opening for flirtation, or just an observation. This moment matters because your response can set the tone for the rest of the conversation: warm and playful, reciprocating interest, or simply grateful and boundary-respecting. Here are calm, useful things to say so you can respond in a way that feels right for you.

Why This Moment Matters

Hearing “you’re funny” is a small social cue that someone noticed how you express yourself. It can signal attraction, comfort, or appreciation for your personality — and your reaction will tell them whether you’re open to deepening the exchange or keeping things casual. How you reply also affects how you feel afterward: a confident, authentic response helps you stay in control of the interaction.

Short, Simple Things You Can Say

• Thanks — I try.
• I’m glad you noticed.
• Right back at you — you crack me up too.
• Good to know my jokes landed.
• That’s a nice thing to say.
• Only on my good days.

Longer Messages With More Warmth

• Thanks — I enjoy laughing with you. Want to trade stories?
• I appreciate that. I like keeping things light, but I can also get serious if you want to talk about something else.
• I’m glad you think so — making people laugh makes me happy. What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you this week?
• That means a lot coming from you. I enjoy our conversations; they feel easy.
• Haha, thanks — I’m not just joking around to be funny, I actually like sharing this side of myself with people I like.

What to Avoid Saying

• Don’t dismiss it with “Oh stop” in a way that invalidates the compliment.
• Avoid immediately self-deprecating responses like “I’m not really that funny” which can invite doubt.
• Don’t turn it into a test: “Funny how?” — that can come off defensive.
• Avoid overexplanations or trying to “prove” your worth beyond the compliment.
• Don’t use sarcasm that could be misread as cold or uninterested.

Helpful Tips for Handling the Moment

• Match the tone: if it was playful, respond playfully; if it felt sincere, respond with warmth.
• Use a brief follow-up to steer the conversation: a question, a compliment back, or a light anecdote.
• Keep your body language open — a smile or relaxed posture reinforces a positive response.
• If you’re unsure of intent, respond neutrally and watch for next cues before deepening things.
• Practice a couple of go-to replies so you don’t freeze in the moment and can stay authentic.

A Note About This Particular Situation

Context matters: the same line sounds different at a bar, in a work meeting, or during a first date. Be mindful of power dynamics (coworkers or people in supervisory roles) and adjust to keep things professional if needed. Above all, choose a reply that reflects how you actually feel — whether that’s playful, flattered, or reserved.

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About the Author 

Helen Bach is a relationship expert and writer who helps people find the right words when it matters most. She studied English and English Literature at the University of Michigan, where she developed a passion for how language shapes love, conflict, and connection.

At whattosaywhen.net, Helen writes clear, down-to-earth advice on what to say in real-life situations—from first dates and tough conversations to breakups and makeups. Her goal is simple: to make talking about feelings less awkward and a lot more honest.