People often say “Text me” as a quick way to keep the conversation going — and that can leave you wondering what to say back. Simple, clear language removes uncertainty and sets expectations for when and how you’ll follow up.

Why This Moment Matters

When someone tells you “Text me,” they’re either opening a channel for future contact or giving a polite exit from the current conversation. How you respond shapes whether the connection continues, becomes a plan, or fades. A brief confirmation also protects both people from missed messages, awkward assumptions, or unwanted late-night texts.

Short, Simple Things You Can Say

• “Sure — I’ll text you now so you have my number.”
• “Okay — what’s the best number to reach you on?”
• “I’ll message you after [meeting/event].”
• “Do you want SMS or WhatsApp?”
• “Sounds good; I’ll text later today.”
• “I’ll send a quick ‘Hi — it’s [your name]’ so you can save me.”

Longer Messages With More Warmth

• “I’d love to stay in touch — I’ll text you this afternoon and we can pick a time to talk more about [topic].”
• “Thanks — I’ll send a quick message so you have my number, and I’ll follow up tomorrow about the plan.”
• “Perfect — I’ll text after my meeting. If that time doesn’t work for you, let me know and we’ll reschedule.”
• “I appreciate you saying that. I’ll message tonight; if something changes, I’ll give you a heads-up.”

What to Avoid Saying

• Vague commitments like “I’ll try” — they leave too much wiggle room.
• Dismissing phrases like “Whatever, text me” — can sound flippant or rude.
• Asking for a number loudly in a group — move to private to protect privacy.
• Making a joke about texting too much or “spamming” — it can be misread.
• Saying nothing at all and not following up — silence looks like disinterest.

Helpful Tips for Handling the Moment

• Send the first message right away when possible (even a one-line “Hi — it’s [name]” helps them save you).
• Confirm which platform they prefer (SMS, WhatsApp, iMessage, DM) to avoid missed messages.
• State a time or purpose: “I’ll text after work to confirm details” reduces ambiguity.
• If it’s professional, offer an alternative like email or LinkedIn if that’s more appropriate.
• Set a reminder to follow up if you’re likely to forget — people notice when plans are kept.

A Note About This Particular Situation

“Text me” can mean different things depending on context: a casual invitation from a new acquaintance, a promise to continue a date, or a professional request for follow-up. Match your response to the relationship and the importance of the message — being clear and timely shows respect for the other person’s request.

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About the Author 

Helen Bach is a relationship expert and writer who helps people find the right words when it matters most. She studied English and English Literature at the University of Michigan, where she developed a passion for how language shapes love, conflict, and connection.

At whattosaywhen.net, Helen writes clear, down-to-earth advice on what to say in real-life situations—from first dates and tough conversations to breakups and makeups. Her goal is simple: to make talking about feelings less awkward and a lot more honest.